Emotional Intelligence – Never Pack your Wife in a Suitcase

Conflicts happen, people get mad, some people sometimes even become abusive.  At the root of these issues may be emotional abuse.  Many people live their entire lives not knowing that they suffered abuse, or if they do have some idea that they were abused they may live in denial and never get resolve.  We suffer as a nation looking for that pill or quick fix to solve our problems.  We seek out professional help, look to others to try to get our needs met.  We become keenly aware that there is something desperately wrong.  If you admit that you have other personalities, you are diagnosed as having multi personality disorder.  If you lack focus and have trouble paying attention you are diagnosed as being ADD or ADHD.  If you spend too much time on Facebook, you are told that you have an addictive personality.   God forbid you act like a child sometimes and a grown up other times, you then are schizophrenic.  Lables, Lables, Lables.

Our society is very judgmental and we create terms and learn new things but in the end, we learn it is all vanity.  What I am saying very directly here is that who ever you are, what ever you have become, it is possible to change.  We are not animals but humans with a mind and heart.  We are capable of overcoming the past events of our lives and learn to react with emotional intelligence.  For starters we simply can view the world from the lens of love.  If we love one another and believe the best of others we tend to live an empowered and satisfying life.

Choices, Choices, Choices….